But if you're like most women who want to know the WHY behind men's actions, I'm going to tell you. This may help ease the tension. Are you feeling depressed or frustrated after your crush hasnt contacted you? So, that is the first thing going on in your exes head after a breakup that would cause them to not contact you. And if they have a reason, then you can only be happy that you found out the truth instead of just assuming that they lost interest in you and then finding out months later that they didnt. But i was so mad. Very unsettling 9:22 PM, Me: Yes, I've lived with that realization for quite some time. If you think youre being ghosted, you need to decide what to do. Hope things get better soon." So, what you are saying here if her pendulum does swing somewhere in her mind, she has good thoughts of me once in a while? texting is just as much impersonal. I can say that we had 5-6 major fights during the 3 years we have been together. But its still important to check if this is happening to you! They need to go first through the stages of grief and refine themselves. People need more attention and once or twice a month doesnt make the cut. I been fighting all this times so im done. To this day she says, can I come over, then she says dont think this means were getting back. We met a couple months right before he started full time in college and right before him and his brother had to pack up all their stuff and move to a new house. Wow this was completely legit about myself. Ruds teachings showed me a whole new perspective. After all this time I guess I need a miracle for her to ever be back in my life or even a phone call from her. We still followed each other on social media. she told me 2 or 3 times that she was coming back but always changed her mind. She initiated it. If a woman does not text back for weeks at a time, or days at a time several days in a row, it might be safe to assume that she is not interested in carrying your relationship further. The are three prevalent thoughts that your ex is likely to think about if they don't contact you The pendulum I'm not going to contact them first, they'll have to contact me first The peak end rule The pendulum is simply an analogy for the trajectory your emotions take after a break up Well, 5 days into no contact (yes, I've read everything about the proper thing to do when a girl needs space) she contacted me. This of course causes the pendulum to swing to the left as they remember how bad they felt at the end of your time together. If they ignored your previous attempts, give them space and try again in a couple of weeks. Im 38 and going through the exact same thing.
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