What do you think is wrong with him? I have often wondered if there was someone else and even told him I would leave if he wanted. Is that something you would ever consider? You have the say as to what goes on there and with you. I sensed that she had lost her physical affection for me and I was afraid to ask. oh shoot hahahah, there arent any men out there like that. I was dreaming of making an offer of a midwinter vacation to someplace like Hawaii, Barbadoes, The Caymans. He also talks about sex about 20 times a day. Let me know if you have any suggestions. Ill leave out the details here except to say that were a married male/female couple with a couple of kids, and are looking for help on what appears to be an inexplicable sexual trauma response on my wifes part that arose after our second child was born, and that is specific only to me. The same thing happened on night 2. If a person cannot stand to be touched sexually (or any other way), this should be viewed as a problem and treatment should be sought. I am not certain if you are replying to the entire article, or to a specific person in the thread, but I think that it is fair to related lack of attraction to negative feelings if sex is involved. The mind remembers what you went through, but what we dont realize is that the body remembers as well. for me, that insanity is that I could ever be in a truly loving relationship that didnt bring abusive harm. I believe most people do. Is it possible that simply having kids you never really wanted can cause sexual aversion? Jewel ~ i totally get where you are coming from. No one is perfect. Hopefully I can build on this. You may even learn things about yourselves and each other that you never knew before. I wish I knew why, it effects my mental illness negatively. I was fine having sex with my boyfriend of 7 years and had orgasms myself, but it all went downhill very quickly. It seems to happen again and again. It took some time, but I now love myself and my body. Human energy exchanges are something we dont know much about or know how to talk about due to a lack of proper terms or understandings of these ineffable states and exchanges. I am pretty sure that is the case with my wife. Sam that was not my or my husbands problem, his problem was when he came back to the transmission plant from his military leave, under the UAW contract he was coming home with his honorable discharge from the navy he was getting his full seniority that he would have received just like he had never left and his father and others felt this was very unfair. I thought Im the only person in the world living this kind of life. I have been you. I will revisit and post our results. Steve, I am going through a very similar problem only ours has already led to separation. Chills bring an elevated heart rate and are usually felt on the skin.
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